What Does Your Home Say About You?

Posted by Tisha Morris on July 21, 2009

By now we’ve all either heard or personally experienced that a messy home causes a scattered mind. Most of us can admit that when our home is in disorder, our life follows suit, or vice versa.
There is also a social stigma associated with a messy home. According to a study by the University of Texas, people who walk into a stranger’s house form surprisingly strong negative opinions about that person. In fact, the messiness of Michael Jackson’s home, i.e. Neverland, was used as evidence against him when he faced molestation charges. During the trial, the courtroom was presented video footage of Jackson’s home taken by police during a raid.

Of particular interest of several reports was the lack of conventional order in his home.  CNN noted, “The video showed the house cluttered with shoe boxes, books and a variety of objects stacked on the floors.”  Agence France-Press reported that, “The overall image was a peculiar mix of ostentatious opulence and cluttered confusion.”  Almost as damning as finding pornographic magazines were the scattered shoeboxes.
Studies have also shown the effect of a messy home on children.

According to Pennsylvania State University, a study determined that “disorganized” homes tend to produce children with lower cognitive skills.

But is it always a bad thing if your home is messy?

As someone who grew up in an orderly, organized, and clean home, it was second nature for me to keep my own home neat and clean. Perhaps even at times coming close to crossing the border into being OCD (obsessive-compulsive).

Over the years as my more artistic, right-brain side developed, my home became less orderly. My OCD-like qualities had definitely fallen away as my right and left brain came more into balance. My home naturally evolved into an artist’s canvas where I could express myself while maintaining a peace of mind. If you’ve ever been to an artist or musician’s home, you can see how a dominant right-brain home looks like (which might also explain the scattered shoe boxes at Neverland).
A challenge for all of us is to bring into balance our right and left brains. In doing so, our home will naturally come into balance as well.

The important point is to know what is “normal” for your home. In other words, if your home is more messy than usual, then be conscious of what is going on in your life. Accordingly, know that by cleaning your home, your life will become much clearer as well. On the other hand, if keeping your home sparkling clean to the point of squelching creativity or even deterring guests from coming over, then it may be time to enroll in a painting class or some other right-brain activity.
Find where your balance point is and change or fine-tune it when necessary. Ultimately, our home should be a creative, safe, warm, stimulating, peace-filled, sacred space.

photo by Johan Larsson